Hypnosis and Sensuality
Sexual problems that are psychosomatic benefit by enhancing self esteem and confidence. As such, they are prime candidates for
successful hypnotism. Techniques used in hypnosis can rapidly identify and release unresolved conflicts or factors that exist beyond
one's conscious awareness, which can lead to their resolution.
Trouble in Paradise:
When sexual problems occur the logical approach is to look for the causes. The first questions to be answered are: What has
happened? When did the problems begin? How did they progress? How do I feel? What do I want? What am I willing to do to improve
my sex life?
It can be a bittersweet irony that opposites attract because the very "spark" that draws people together, often provides the breeding
ground for future conflict. Over time, communication problems, misunderstandings, confusion over intentions and emotions can grow
into sexual insecurities and incompatibility.
Sexual incompatibility can shatter relationships. A solution to the problem can be found in behavior modification which can create a less
extreme environment and allows for balance between intimacy and distance.
Hypnosis can be useful to modify, relearn or reframe perceptions to facilitate greater compatibility. This improved compatibility can
increase the joy of sex and may even save a relationship.
How Can Hypnotism Help?
Sexual problems that benefit by enhancing self esteem and confidence are prime candidates for success with hypnosis; by facilitating
change and allowing for the release of negative or limiting habits and associated ideas and by identifying triggers that summon negative
behavior or feelings; and by learning to manage the internal processing of hurt feelings, anger and stress.
Most sexual problems have a strong psychological component, hence hypnotism can be a method to overcome anorgasmia, impotence
and premature ejaculation. Changing the way the subconscious responds can produce dramatic results. Hypnotism, as part of a
multimodal approach that includes medical treatment and/or psychological treatment is the right choice.
By freeing the client from worries, distractions, negative emotions and/or other disturbances, they become able to develop a heightened
or focused state of awareness. In addition to direct suggestion, the use of hypnotic regression techniques can be valuable in locating
the source(s) of problems.
Trance: Where Imagination, Emotion and Climax Meet
There is an affinity between great sex and trance. If you think about it, great sex is a trance, an erotic trance. There are
similarities between trance (hypnosis) and satisfying sex. Effective hypnosis involves intense focus and concentration and a
strong response to suggestion. When a sexual experience is at its best, there is also intense focus and concentration and there
is a strong response to suggestion and stimulation. Orgasm may well be the ultimate trance. In both the orgasmic state and the
profound trance state, powerful mind/body and even spiritual connections and sensations are concentrated to the point where all
other thought, emotion, feelings and sensations are seemingly obliterated from the mind. When you think about it, the "state" of
orgasm is it's very own state of mind.
Sexuality & Hypnosis:
Besides being highly useful in overcoming sexual problems that are psychosomatic in nature, hypnosis is also a beautiful way for
two consenting adults to explore and enhance their level of intimacy as well as the intensity of their sexual relationship.
There's evidence supporting the theory that both sexuality and hypnosis are derived from the same biological substrate for
social intimacy. That waking and/or hypnotic suggestion works because it makes particular use of evolved human capacity to
synchronize our body rhythms in intimate communication, which is, to say the least, also a highly receptive and cooperative
process. It is less suggestion 'programming' of an unaware mind; and more hypnotic suggestion evoking cooperation through
imaginative appeal.
The evidence for it is based, in part, upon the comparison of physical responses to hypnotic suggestion, with our visceral
responses to poetry (which includes rhythmic and compelling use of language as well), and observing how rapport develops in
hypnosis compared to other intimate communications.
The same underlying processes that help us synchronize with each other in sexual intimacy are also present in creating hypnotic
rapport, hence the same or similar factors lighten or deepen both forms of rapport.
You can read about fascinating areas of convergence between sex research by (Mosher), and views on hypnotic trance in 'The
Hypnotic Brain' by Peter Brown.
For more information or to schedule an individual or couples session Contact Dr. Clark at 704
845-5705 or via email at drclark@matthewshypnosis.com. We would love to help you get
your marriage back on track.
Men seeking guided meditation through hypnosis for erectile dysfunction, impotence or premature
ejaculation must be sure their problem is not a medical issue that requires medical attention.
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